...when you share it with the ones you love. Gosh, this is SO true. I didn't even really think about it before going to India. I mean it's a cliche statement, something we all know, but I especially realized it while I was gone. I was on this amazing trip, this experience of a lifetime, and so much of my heart was back home.
Before I left, when I told people I was headed to India for a month, most people would respond with, "What is Jake going to do without you?" or "How are you going to be apart from Jake for that long?" I honestly underestimated it. I thought to myself, "We're independent, time will fly by, I hate routine and this is a way to shake things up." But it seemed to have almost shaken it up too much.
Here I was, in a tropical city while Minnesota was experiencing the below zero deep freeze and record amounts of snow, and I was wishing so badly to be experiencing the trip with the ones I love. I was staying at the nicest place I've ever stayed, being escorted around by a driver, eating amazing food from all over the world. When I ate at Zen and ordered a table for one, I truly thought to myself, Gosh, this whole experience would be so much better with Jake here."
It sounds like a 'duh' statement, I know, but it's a great reminder to not take things for granted. I really enjoyed my time, and believe me, am so grateful for the experience. But next time I know not to underestimate the feeling of loneliness, and heck, maybe Jake would like a vacation to India as well! He'd eat curry, lentils, and paneer, right? (In reality, he'd probably try to survive on naan.) But it's once again not about the rich, fancy, expensive experience. It's the enriching, special, fulfilling experience we seek. Sure, if it can be rich, fancy, expensive, and be enriching, special, fulfilling, well that'd be pretty great too. :)
Before I left, when I told people I was headed to India for a month, most people would respond with, "What is Jake going to do without you?" or "How are you going to be apart from Jake for that long?" I honestly underestimated it. I thought to myself, "We're independent, time will fly by, I hate routine and this is a way to shake things up." But it seemed to have almost shaken it up too much.
Here I was, in a tropical city while Minnesota was experiencing the below zero deep freeze and record amounts of snow, and I was wishing so badly to be experiencing the trip with the ones I love. I was staying at the nicest place I've ever stayed, being escorted around by a driver, eating amazing food from all over the world. When I ate at Zen and ordered a table for one, I truly thought to myself, Gosh, this whole experience would be so much better with Jake here."
It sounds like a 'duh' statement, I know, but it's a great reminder to not take things for granted. I really enjoyed my time, and believe me, am so grateful for the experience. But next time I know not to underestimate the feeling of loneliness, and heck, maybe Jake would like a vacation to India as well! He'd eat curry, lentils, and paneer, right? (In reality, he'd probably try to survive on naan.) But it's once again not about the rich, fancy, expensive experience. It's the enriching, special, fulfilling experience we seek. Sure, if it can be rich, fancy, expensive, and be enriching, special, fulfilling, well that'd be pretty great too. :)

